Have you ever imagined when you see a miracle what you feel ? Well today I want to share my personal experience about miracle… more than seeing when you feel the miracle happening in your life you are changed as a person.. Sometimes you won’t believe whether it’s happening in real… But it happend to me. June 11 : This is the day when I first realized a slight difficulty in breathing which was negligible but I was not fully comfortable in breathing… From past 3 months there was a hurdle in my house to go to hometown from chennai during this lockdown where as I was not in favour of that…. But suddenly something disturbed me in my heart and my heart said to me.. It’s the right time you should be leaving to your hometown… That day I said to my mom.. “Ok fyn let’s go to hometown but promise me we should be back in 15-20 odd days… My mom said ok… Then there’s a question ..by which mode we should go.. As a surprise we came to know about a travels and we went upto Madurai throught it… And from Madurai to kanyakumari by train..finally we reached our destination……Things were going normal but I was getting down and down day by day …i was having shortness in breathing… One side of my chest was feeling very heavy.. I said to dad… He provided with some vitamin tablets… Things again gone somewhat well for nxt 10 days. One fine Monday i got severe fever.. My dad was worried about it…everyone thought of nothing but “Corona” fever was like coming and going this things triggered my mom’s scare… Then my inner soul was shattered with fear… I have never felt like this before …I was standing at the edge of my life.. Such a feeling i had… I prayed a lot to “Jesus” and I promised him that I will spend more time for him.. And learn a lot about him… My father had a contact with a Neuro surgeon.. He listed some X-ray and scan… suddenly he was shocked to see my chest X-ray.. My left lungs was fully missing in that x-ray.. He immediately mentioned to consult a specialist for lungs… We went to him next.. Everyone’s reaction were making me to scare a bit… And that scan report said I am having “Plural effusion” in my lungs it means my lungs was surrounded my infected water . Next few experience in next blog guys.

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As you dial a particular number you get a ring and the receiver takes the call and speaks to you… Just like that when you fell in love you DIAL your effort to the particular person and she/ he accepts it then a connection is made.Love is something for which you don’t fill an application… It just happens as life passes by since we are human beings…here I am talking about those who are serious about it… For an example if a person shows a concern care, love, affection especially for you just as your parents does… then what you will feel… you feel that may be he/ she is your betterhalf… We are brought up in such an era where we are not taught about castism, religionsm etc etc..so how could our parents expect that we should look for the same caste and religion.. Now here comes the DRAMA right from our childhood our parents don’t show any sign that they are dipped in the heated oil of caste etc.. When we come at a certain age where we find our soulmate that time they show their real faces even if we haven’t told them ( Epaah ena timing da saami) at that situation we get into a “dilemma” a confusing state…whether to give priority to the person who gave birth to us… Or to the person from which we thought to give birth. At many places our mother blackmails use emotionally… Like I will kill myself or I have done so many things for you…. So I expect you to do only this for me… As if give and take policy… Parents have given everything for us I aceept that but the pain we get from our sacrifice is far more than that. Let’s not make our next generation to be in such “DILEMMA”.

Every human being faces a difficult phase in their life and everyone wants to stay in ‘silence’ for a particular time. But SILENCE has its both positive and negative effect on an individual.. ‘Silence’ saves from many conflicts some times gives you a ‘SIGH’ of relief to think and analyse and to divert your thought process…. But at the same time it also creates a Depression state of mind .God has gives us eyes to see the world but the actual ‘LENSE’ is our brain that helps us to magnify the things we see and listen… Lense helps us to see small things more accurate and shows it’s beauty.. Just like that our mind is also a lense if we see through its magnifying lense we can see small small happiness in our life… For eg… Today we are alive that’s happiness…. Today our parents or loved ones are with us it is happiness… Today we are having three times meal a day ..it’s also a happiness.. I know what you are thinking.. These are the basic things of life… But dear mates if we didn’t get anything what we wished..it’s better to think what we have in our hand. Silence is tool which should or should not be used based on situation.” Share the reason of your silence when environment is silent…. And be silent when situation is Violent.”

Guys wait… Usual topic with unusal content… From Sunday talk of town is Suicide ,Depression, etc…etc.. But I don’t want to talk like ‘we should not do it’ and all stuffs. I just want to express my thought that what we require basically in life… First is three time food…. Second good health… Third a proper shelter to live ..fourth enough money to buy all the above things… If we become successful and earn in lakhs and crores… Suddenly you are back to earning in thousands…. That is a situation where many comes into intense pressure… Such situation covers our eyes from looking at the good environment around us….just imagine ‘Do beggar commit suicide??… No… They find a way to live as per their situation… Another case is when people find themselves in loneliness… I am too facing this situation sometimes.. But I don’t see this as end of everything…try to explore by yourself… Life doesn’t stays the same way as it is now… ONCE LIFE GONE ITS GONE…hence don’t decide to commit suicide beacuse’ As per our shashtras… ‘A MAN WHO COMMITS SUICIDE HIS/HER SOUL DOESNT RESTS IN PEACE’ then why to try such think… We could find a way to live happy. #End is not end#

We come across many moments in our life that are good or bad… Which makes us happy or makes us deserted. We reach at an age where we can differentiate between good and bad, where we can justify our opinions, where we can take decisions. These decisions could be of taking ‘which higher education to choose’, ‘ what kind of career you need or prefer’, ‘whom you should marry’ and etc…. But do you really think that all the decisions that you take are going to be right in future… Not necessary all the time… Now you may be thinking what I am trying to say…. Well we are normal human beings… We have one life… We don’t have power to look into the future, if it happens we won’t take any wrong decisions in life at all…so what to do when you are at a verge of taking a DECISION… Simple…… Listen to your heart… Think of the consequences… Even if you love to do what your heart says do it…analyse the situation and take a step… Now when you have taken a step… And it went the other side that you didn’t wanted to… “Don’t blame yourself”because we live in present we can take decision only from our present…. We can’t predict future… So there is nothing to blame yourself saying that” Oh god I would have stopped it that day itself” it’s not your fault… If things doesn’t happen.. Then take a lesson from it and live your life… Nothing to feel sorry… Nothing to regret.. Even if someone blames you …then also have a thought in your mind that ” No one wants to jump into a well wantedly”.Think about the next solution… If mistake happen again don’t get dejected… Many failures are there to teach you… So don’t feel regreted. Be happy that you have lived your favourite moments of your life atleast once in your lifetime that you loved the most.

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Sacrifice is just a nine letter word which has a lot of strength in it… It means to give up our something which is ours ,but we give it up for someone els happiness ….Our parents sacrifice their sleep, sweat, blood, and energy for our basic need and happiness.. These are something which the parents can express by their tiredness, by their words, by their actions too and we children can feel it…Or atleast can see it….But a lot of times parents asked at some point if there is a small quarrel within us.. “What have you plucked”…”What have you sacrified for me”…or What have you done so far”….Dear parents we have SACked out our dream career for you… we have REfused most of our ‘oppurtunity’ that comes our way because of your disapproval…We have FIred our expectation from life… We have CEmented our emotion…giving up our “Love” which is equal to our Life… and you ask us what have you done… The sadness of our sacrifice is that we can’t express to you because you say it Crap… you say us immature… you sometimes don’t understand our feelings…. So whoever has this problem share this to your parents so that they could realize.

Well you might be thinking this as a usual topic… Although it is an usual one but my perspective not usual.In a ‘Relay’ race we see four players passing the baton(cylinder shaped thing) to one another and completing the race with the efforts of all the four players… One who has won it, has been able to win only because of the co-ordination of all the four ,the timing, speed, consistency,all should be, well drafted to win the race… If any one person misses out at any one point at any stage of race they may lose the game.Similarly “relationships” need co-ordination of love, care, affection, honesty and understanding at every stage of life which is important to lead a succesful life….you might be wondering why I mentioned those 4 players… First Player(stage) in ourselves is the individual person himself/herself… Second Player is the one who becomes a family man/women after marraige… Third player is the one who is now become a parent…. Fourth Player is the one who had become a grand parents.. In all these stages of life if we have the co-ordination of all the factors in a correct timing, speed and consistency we will definitly win the RACE of life.. and the journey of the “SHIP” will reach to destination with joy and harmony.

Coming directly to the point of egoism.. I jst want to share my perception towards it. As we all know that it is one of the characteristic of all human being regardless the gender… We see ‘self respect’ and ‘ego’ as a same entity… Hence we refuse to say a simple word SORRY. Now you might be thinking why should I ask sorry if I am not at all wrong…I would say yes you are right from your perspective but there is another perspective where you are neither wrong nor right.. That is the perception of building a healthy and long living relationship , may be it a friendship.. Husband wife relationship…parents and child relationship etc… These above mentioned relationships are the one about whom you know very well as an individual as obviously you have accepted it or sometimes may be not.. But when you give off your ego as ask SORRY it gives your relationship a new start and a hope… For eg…I have a friend of mine who gets angry and shouts at me most of the time for nothing but everytime I am the one to convince and say… Ok it’s neither your fault nor mine it’s just a misunderstanding… That’s where a new hope of life again begins… And you know why I am doing this everytime because that friend deserves it as he has been an example of HONESTY..nd CARE… You can miss the most beautiful moments of your life if you do not let your “ego” GO. Let’s be expressive because your love is only called love when the opposite person feels it and it is done by expression.

You might me thinking why I have written positivity as “PAUSEitivity”.Everyone faces the bad or the worst phases of life in their day to day life and everytime when we share our sorrowness, we are told to stay positive by everyone to whom we consult… But do we really stay positive always? Ask yourself…. The term positivity is a sigh of hope that our tommorow will be pleasant… It is a feel that give ‘PAUSE ‘ to our negative thoughts and vibes which helps us to work progressively… The reality is everyday we need a booster to PAUSE our negative thoughts that keep us going….”You are watching an emotional movie in a theatre and you are in tears….and suddenly it’s time for an interval which gives a PAUSE and all that you are back to normal”..thats the fundamental of life…Sometimes we can’t change the truth of life but atleast we can give it a pause… by saying. “ALL IZZZZ WELL.

Heart is the only internal organ of our body which we can feel especially during the time of sadness, frustration,failures etc.. HEART has it’s own DEZIRES which is getting unconditional love, care, affection and a sense of feeling that there is someone to think about you from his/her bottom heart………but when it fails to get that it is an immeasrable pain just like someone piercing your heart out by a knife… Your heart becomes so heavy and all your body start shivering… Truely HEART is the emotional organ of our body…but reality of life is all Dezires of heart can’t be fulfilled.. That’s one of the bitter truth of life. Hence let’s not hurt anyones heart…. It’s pain is more than anything else in this world.